“Nothing can fill the gap when we are away from those we love,
and it would be wrong to try and find anything.
We must simply hold out and win through.
That sounds hard at first,
but at the same time it is a great onsolation,
since leaving the gap unfilled preserves the bond between us.
It is nonsense to say that God fills the gap;
he does not fill it,
but keeps it empty so that our communion with another may be kept alive,
even at the cost of pain.” Dietrich Bonhoeffer
It is a sad day
my heart is heavy
but I know that she will find her way through this.